Rotten and Anyone else!

[rotten]

REdhead...i dont mean to lump everyone together. But the case i put is the case i see for a few women here. To be honest i didnt think of you when i even said any of that 1) cus i dont think you ran from cyber man to cyber man looking for fulfillment.

2) never really saw you in the pool bragging bout having sex with your online love..

also some (very few) but some here are based on finding someone special but i honestly believe if that someone is that special you'd leave them out of the bullshit online

but some...face it or not are not, they go from one to another, advertise it to the room...and holyfuck how many unhappilymarried woman can you fall truly and deeply in love with.

i didnt mean to group all together cus there are exceptions...but they are rare.

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[Blazey]

Leo..i can honestly say..i would never have had an online affair with anyone while i was still living in the same house as my husband..I feel a certain amount of loyalty to all of them...most of them didnt deserve my loyalty..but it was required of me i felt..Even when i was cheated on..i left..i walked out..and then i found someone new..i know how i felt the day i found out my husband had a girlfriend..my world crumbled around me..god knows i would never inflict that pain on anyone else..if they deserved it even..but the way i see it..yes..everyone has their ways of dealing with things..their own morals..their own lives..mine is how i choose it to be...you cant live my life..no more than i can live yours..i dont think you think any less of me..for what i do..nor would i think any less of you for what you do..we are all individuals..with our own minds..and we have to take the consequence for what we do..right..*S..i would never sit in judgement of what anyone on here does..none of my business..cuz i dont have to walk in their shoes...but i do have to walk in mine!


Oh and Leo..*dances*I had a very nice weekend [img]smile.gif[/img] ..remind me to tell you about it..very soon!..i just re-read my post..i wasnt aiming that at you..just trying to answer you..!..so i hope it donst look that way.. [img]eek.gif[/img]

[*Leo the Lioness*]

nah, blaze, i didn't think you were aiming it at me at all.....i was just being the Devil's Advocate there, i truly wanted to know if you would've done it anyway, and, well, i got my answer *G

okay, tell me about your weekend.......although, my old age is starting to get the better of me and at 20 mins to 11pm, i'm losing steam and my bed is looking good to me right now *LOL*

and if i have to hear about "unhappily married WOMEN" one more time, i swear, i'm gonna charter a plane and bitchslap a certain chauvanist pig [img]smile.gif[/img]

check out the users list for Chatropolis at any given time, you'll notice a LOT of married MEN not making any secret about their dealings

BTW, did anyone really know i was seeing someone for the last year, besides a couple of people who know us both, or that i've told in privacy? i know only ONE of them has ever given me grief over it, but i think it was out of jealousy, and not because i was parading around about it

[Blazey]

I am gonna save it till one nite this week..when me and miz chloe can give you that call i promised ya..*G*..then you can have details..*L..maybe thursday nite..i'll let ya know..and see when its a good time for ya!

I owe you a thank you.. [img]wink.gif[/img]

[Më£ïñÐa]

<FONT SIZE=7>WHOOOOOAAAAAAAAAA!! GENIE!!</FONT>
damn! that had to make you feel better!!!!
its like you was IN HIS and EVERBODYs face...
with yer finger tap'n hard on the chest...
TAP...TAP...TAP!!!

*i fell off my chair mid post... [img]biggrin.gif[/img]

Keep goin!! you can do it!!! NO DOUBT!!!

[-=Wizard=-]

*collects 2 and mel's cents*
what, i need the cash!

Gives Leo a nickel to. *S
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[The Reverend Dark Angel]

I just have to say one thing that I didn't get to on the Online Love post cause I didn't actually read it all until I started counting vulgarities. But J, we've always gotten along and been cool but I seriously did not like the whole slamming a 22 year old who lives at home with his parents and doesn't have a job... why? Cause I'm a 22 year old who lives at home with his parents and doesn't have a job. Not everyone who lives at home does so because they can't get out on their own, there are many complications in life that one just can't seem to bypass in any way shape or form. I have a terminally ill mother that should have been dead years ago but is still ticking away like the energizer fuckin' bunny. She needs to be taken care of 24/7 and my Dad is retired millitary waiting to retire again and can't stay home with her. I know everything about her equipment, I know everything about her disease and what's needed in a moment's notice so I opted to leave the apartment I got years ago and move back in so I could help them both out. I don't have a job right now cause I'm not willing to settle for 7 bucks an hour to lug shit around for a bunch of uptight pricks I can't stand to begin with. I'm better than that and worth a fuckload more. I'm not holding out for something great to come along but I'm sure as shit not running out to simply find some 9 - 5 job that will make it so I can't stay home to take care of my mother anymore. The point is everyone's situations are different and there are reasons why people do what they do. So next time phrase it differently so I'm reading the computer and not staring in a mirror dagnabit! [img]biggrin.gif[/img]

And Leo, what the fuck does banal mean? Is that a vulgarity? Cause if so I need to add another mark to the tally.

[The Lady Belle]

Although I am not a christian I keep on thinking of this:

"Ye who is without sin, cast the first stone"

I carry no stones..I covert..I lust..I envy..Im proud..Im greedy..Im prone to anger..

Not quiet your 7 deadly sins but close enough..

Live your life the way that makes you happy and damn the rest!!

[Cindy Belle]

rotten?.....East Coast Bitch, do you know what a bitch you came off as cus of the women who knew scott and knew what you were "about"????.....Theres that judging again..what Im about?...LMAO....No one knows what Im about dear cause i never advertise my life story...Not me personally..and as far as Scott and women in here?...thats a joke..*L*..Like I said what matters in life is what we think of ourselves and frankly i feel good about my self and could care less who says what about me...and mel...(course you later pissed everyone off on your own)..*L...Totally funny huh?....*shakes head*..later folks ........*S

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[Briii]

Genie,
All I have to say is you do what makes YOU and your children happy. I lived in a past very similar to yours and I went thru all the motions and did things that I didn't necessarily want to do but what I thought was the "right" thing and what was expected of me. Then one day, I realized, I'm not content with the way my life is going. For many years I lived for everyone else, and always put myself last. Realizing that, I filed for divorce. I have never regretted it. I know, this forum has blown way out of proportion and things were said that never should of been said, but when you leave this place, and turn the computer off... its back to YOU and only YOU. I say congratulations! for standing up and having a voice. Not necessarily to rotten, but to anyone who has the gall to stand up and make accusations towards you. I'm not trying to piss anyone off but I like you and think its ok to stand up and express yourself as you did in this thread. Afterall, who am I to judge YOU? I would never even begin to try, because I have lived a less than perfect life, and life is all about "live and learn" and I wish you well. Good luck to you hon. *slaps you a ^5*